Consistency. It’s one of the biggest values, for me personally, and it speaks volumes about a person. How a person takes care of and treats themselves will speak a lot about how treat and will treat others they are in a relationship with. Whether that be romantic, work, familial, or another other. Furthermore, when they are not, they own it. Consistency leads to trust. Consistency is a key component in healthy relationships, and if you are not consistent with yourself how can you be consistent with others?
Consistency with self is also incredibly important. It is a huge component of self-trust and self-love. If you are consistent at being inconsistent you may find yourself frustrated, upset, angry, and stressed often.
Why?
Because you will feel like a failure.
Whether you internalize it or externalize it, you will not trust yourself, and therefore, other won't trust you either.
What can consistency look like? Here are some examples of what consistency can look like?
In conclusion, here are some key points and questions to contemplate:
Do you say what you say you'll do?
Do you have boundaries, and if so, do you uphold them?
Do you often feel like you are letting others down? Do you feel like your letting yourself down?
Does any of this stress you out just thinking about it?
Be honest with yourself. Because that is a key component within consistency.